Cheating Wife Asks ‘Should I Tell My Husband Our Two Daughters Are From My Past Affairs?’

Infidelity is always a bad choice and with it comes negative consequences. Some experience the immediate effects right away while others get to escape it – until their conscience could no longer bear it.

Case in point, one married woman who had multiple affairs many years ago is now asking the internet how to tell her husband about it, specifically about the fact that their two teenage daughters aren’t actually his.

Should I tell my husband that our children aren’t biologically his?

The said question was posted on Quora and it has since sparked curiosity and controversy among users.

The woman, who didn’t leave her real identity for obvious reasons, said she has been married for 15 years but has had several sexual relationships with other men throughout their marriage.

She had an affair with several men, including her husband’s cousin and the family “laundry man”.

As she wrote on Quora:

“I am love married (sic) for 15 years now and living happily with my husband and two daughters 14 & 13 years old.

“He is not their real father and he is not aware of that.

“From my college days when I was dating him, I used to have casual sex with guys around. Please don’t ask me about counts.

“After marriage I became a housewife and was less social. But this didn’t change me. I still get to meet guys when my husband was out which included his cousin, friends, laundry man, neighbors etc.”

“So in short I did it with multiple guys,” the woman continued. “And I have no regrets, I still do it but less frequently.

She further confessed:

“When my daughters were 5 & 6 I got their DNA tested and as expected came to know he isn’t their father.

“He is a good man though, but I feel if I tell him, he will leave me, and that will affect my daughters’ life financially.

“So what should I do?”

Quora users had mixed reactions regarding the post, with some calling her ‘disgusting’ and telling her she should ‘live with shame’ because of what she did. Meanwhile, others offered practical advice should as hiring a lawyer before telling her husband.

Well what would you suggest for this woman, our dear readers? Should she come clean and confess or just keep it a secret? Share your insights in the comment section below.